One family is making plenty of people’s heads turn after they did the unthinkable.

Think along the lines of adding a very sassy and hidden NSFW-themed message across a loved one’s tombstone. And yes, it’s as daunting as that may sound.

But if you think they have any shame regarding the ordeal, well, think again. They’re proudly defending the action and it’s leaving a lot of people confused and not convinced.

The deceased father’s tombstone has sparked major outrage across the board as people were just dumbfounded to learn about this behavior. They felt it was not right and that the family need to take a second look at this because disrespectful is a term that’s just the start of it. Other locals were the first ones to complain as they felt someone needed to speak out before it was too late.

The father named Steven Owen passed away in September and this new tombstone was designed in his honor. But instead of it giving him respect, some locals felt it was doing the right opposite. It featured an NSFW message that was clearly hidden but enough for anyone to make out what was written.

But what was written that had many people so furious is a question worth pondering.

“Forever in our hearts. Until we meet again. Cherished memories. Known as. Our son, brother. Father, papa, uncle. Friend and cousin.” At first glance, we’re sure you must be noticing how nothing appears out of place. In fact, it just all seems to be so well put together right?

And while that’s true, the arrangement of the message was done in a manner where each line began with a letter that when read in a vertical manner, it says F**k Off! And you couldn’t miss it, even if you wanted to.