A 20-year-old woman is seven-months pregnant and lives with her three partners in Jacksonville, Florida.
Tory Ojeda is in a polyamorous relationship with four men and is planning to raise her first child to raise with all four of her partners.
Tory, who lives with three of her partners in Jacksonville, Florida, met one of her partners Marc when she was in high school. Two months later, she started dating Travis.
In July, Tory and Travis announced their engagement. After that, she also got into a relationship with long-term mutual friends Ethan and Christopher.
Tory is currently seven-months pregnant with Christopher’s child and is planning to raise her child with all four partners.
She told Barcroft TV: “Chris is the biological father. We just know that because of timing and when the approximate conception date was. Based off of the approximate conception day, we had been on vacation. So it was only us.”
“But as far as I guess, socially goes, we’re all raising the baby together, so everyone’s dad. We’re all very, very excited to be raising a baby together.”
Tory is the only one who has multiple partners but she says she doesn’t have any problem if her partners find a second partner.
She said: “Dividing time and figuring out schedules between all five people and making sure everyone feels included, it’s kind of difficult. I’d like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice.”
Tory gives equal time to all four partners as her partners “swap in and out” of her bed each night.
When the baby’s father Christopher was asked about raising the child with three other men, he said: “It’s definitely a little interesting. I grew up with the idea of you know, one dad, one mum. But there is a lot of support between all of us dads and it’s something we can tag team.”
“We always joke about the idea of getting stack in an endless loop of go ask your dad.”
When Tory was asked what her friends and family think about her polyamorous relationship, she said that her friends don’t find it weird but her family has disapproved the polyamorous relationship.
She said: “Polyamory is definitely an uncommon thing. A lot of people have grown up in monogamy culture of, you don’t really love someone if you have eyes for somebody else.”
“We definitely get weird looks. I’ve had people just say rude comments when we’ve just been hanging out at a fast food place. I’ve been called a hoe more than once.”
“Maybe in our future, we might see it become a common thing where people don’t bat an eye on it anymore at all. One can hope.”
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