A mother has sparked a lengthy debate after she told single mothers to prioritize their boyfriends instead of their children.
While many agreed with her, others slammed her saying their ‘children always come first.’
The woman named Kim took to YouTube and shared her video titled ‘Advice for single mothers struggling finding a man.’
“Single mothers, if you wanna know why you’re not getting swiped on by the kind of men that you feel you deserve,” she said.
“Stop telling these men, after asking them for all of their time, effort, energy, and money, that they are going to come after your f****** children… by another man.
“I don’t know in what world you thought that that would entice a man to want to date you.”
She also said in her clip that she ‘doesn’t know or give a s***’ about any ‘baggage or drama’ (kids) from previous relationships but she knows that she does not expect it if she’s going to have a new relationship.
People flocked to the comment section, with some agreeing with her while others were slamming her for being so ‘inaccurate’ and ‘cringy.’
One person wrote: “She makes a really good point. Any man should expect that of course a woman cares more about her children than a brand new relationship with a stranger. So all you are communicating by writing that out in your profile is that you are bossy.”
Another said: “Nothing makes me swipe left, harder, than “1kid, you will NEVER be more important than them.
” Why would I got into a relationship where I’m already being told to not even try? It’s worse with the pets. ‘My dog Lucy, is #1 and you will never be more important.’ Any one who swipes right on those people, must really have low self esteem.
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A third added: “So true. Every time I see a dating profile that says “my kids come first”, I’m outta there. Because no matter how hard I try to be a good and loving partner, it will always be whatever the kids want.”
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