When it comes to wedding invitations, parents usually get all the details first but this is not the case for one woman who has revealed that she just uninvited her own mother from her big day.
Felicity Rae took to TikTok and revealed that she cut ties with her mother before revoking her right to go to her wedding.
The bride-to-be has been praised for sharing her entire story, with many saying that what she did was for the best.
“I uninvited my own mum from my wedding, this happened a few months ago after months and months of planning,” Felicity expressed.
“I just felt not appreciated, not supported, and I just felt this heavy anxiety and overwhelming feeling that she was just going to make my life and day a living hell on the most special day of my life thus far.”
The bride-to-be also explained that the last time she spoke with her mother was during a short FaceTime call, where she described her anxiety and stress.
Felicity said that she told her mother she was stressed out and that she had been feeling overwhelmed.
“At one point, she even said that this isn’t normal and that I should get help instead of being like, ‘How can I help?’ During the call, she said, ‘You know what? You’ve turned quite the f*****g snob lately’ – those exact words,” she continued.
“Immediately, I said, ‘You’re uninvited to the wedding’ and she said, ‘That’s fine’ – and then I blocked her just on social media.”
Felicity also explained that her mother could easily make a quick phone call or sent a text message but she didn’t.
“She’s probably said awful things about me to other people because she’s probably embarrassed that she’s been uninvited to her own daughter’s wedding,” she said, adding that she didn’t want to be in a bad mood during her big day.
“She plays the victim and she has said to my bridesmaid, ‘I will never apologize for anything because I didn’t do anything,’” she added.
Felicity has received hundreds of comments, with one person sharing a similar experience: “I’m so sorry and I’m glad you did! My mom gave me the silent treatment for a week, a month before my wedding. I’m MOST nervous about her behavior.”
Another wrote: “I set boundaries with my mom and my sisters. They LOVE to gossip and talk trash about one another. My mom didn’t like it and she’s very dramatic.”
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