A man has turned to an online forum to ask for help because he’s finding it hard to visit his partner that happens to be admitted to the hospital.

According to him, he adores his girlfriend to death but there is just something about hospitals that gives him so much anxiety. And it’s tough for him to deal with this, he added.

The smell, sight, and sound of hospitals really haunt some people. Meanwhile, others are better at tolerating it. But this young man says that he just couldn’t manage to gather the guts to visit his lover who was admitted to the hospital’s emergency department.

Now, his girlfriend is taking to her account on Reddit to mention how awful she feels because this was a chance to prove to her how much he cared.

The incident has left a lot of people shocked because they felt that if the girl mattered so much, he should have been there by her side.

And while there were some who tried to take the guy’s side and agree that hospitals are haunting, they do feel he could have handled the matter better.

The man tried to justify his actions and go on to detail how he sent her a text about how he couldn’t make it. That really disappointed her further.

She detailed more about how this was her first time at the hospital and she was scared as it was a major emergency scare for her. But not only did he reply after hours, but all she got was also a thumbs-up emoji. That was really an embarrassing response for her.

The next day, his mother called her and informed her that she ended up giving him a lot of anxiety by providing details linked to her medical condition. She was dumbfounded. This was her man, why was he behaving like this?

Now, she’s asking Redditors if her boyfriend is in the wrong or not about the way he behaved with her when she was sick.