Jennifer Lopez wants the world to know that she’s having a very lonely and somber Christmas.

The star just went through a very high-profile divorce with their former husband Ben Affleck and now, she’s taking time out to reflect on the recent past.

Lopez spoke about how the main way to overcome things is not by thinking that it’s happening but by imagining the life lessons needed at this moment in time.

Speaking to the British Vogue in a new interview, she discussed more on this matter.

She also shared how these types of things ensure people learn to be more grateful for what they have than worry about what they lost. And for the singer, she’s focusing more on the good than anything else.

“Whatever happened, happened for a reason!”- she continued. The celeb also mentioned that she’s trying her best to divert her mind from all the negative but focus more on the positive and lessons that came with it.

‘I am learning to embrace all the hardships of life’- she shared.

Lopez says that nothing is a coincidence in her opinion. What’s meant to happen does and she firmly believes in this. For now, she’s going to be spending Christmas with the kids because right now, that’s her main priority.