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‘Am I In The Wrong For Making My Boyfriend Pay For Everything Because I Think I Am An Investment And Should Be Spoiled?’


A woman has shared how she makes her boyfriend pay for everything as she describes herself as a great ‘investment’.

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27-year-old Hannah Chan, a business consultant from London, said that she wanted a man who could provide for her while she does the household chores.

So when she met business owner Ed Reay, 22, they immediately hit it off as they realized that their values aligned.

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Ed from Vancouver, Canada, flew to the UK to meet Hannah in July 2021. Only months later, he decided to move to London to be with her.

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As their relationship progressed, her boyfriend began to pay for everything – their dates, bills, rent, and holidays.

“I started to realize that in a relationship I didn’t want to be the dominant one and I wanted someone who could provide for me,” Hannah explained.

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“Before I had always viewed my business success and money I earnt as my value in dating, but I realized I didn’t want that,” she continued.

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Hannah said that after meeting Ed, she was told by him that he wanted to provide for her.

“We have a 100/100 relationship – he provides financially, and I give him 100 per cent when it comes to support and love and little things like bringing him a smoothie after a stressful day,” she added.

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Hannah also said that the most important thing for them is that their values align.

“At the beginning, he would just pay for dates, and then he started paying for me to get my nails done and now he covers our rent and bills,” she shared.

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“My value comes from supporting him and balancing the masculine energy.”

Hannah said that she also manages the house so her boyfriend doesn’t have to worry about buying groceries, cooking, and cleaning.

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“Ed doesn’t value money the most – he values being supported and cared for,” she went on.

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“He thinks of me as an investment as I’ve supported him, and it’s meant he now makes three times what he used to earn.”

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