A man has sought advice on the internet after learning that his wife had kept a massive secret from him for twenty years.
The man in question revealed that he and his partner had been together for 20 years and that he only now found out a huge secret about her past thanks to his sister-in-law.
Explaining his situation, the man said he felt violated after finding out his wife had been seeing his own brother just weeks before the two became a couple.
Neither the woman nor the brother, however, ever let the man in on their secret until it was accidentally spilled by the woman’s sibling.
“I never knew. They kept it a secret all these years. I realize it is ancient history, but we have had our marriage issues like every couple over the years. I feel pain, violated, and almost irrationally angry that this ‘secret’ was common knowledge in my family, but I was clueless,” he wrote.
“I don’t know how physical it was, but the implication by my SIL was they were intimate.point 190 | My wife and I already sleep apart.point 218 |
I am thinking of ending it with her over this.point 37 | I was a fool for half my life to everyone close to me.point 79 | I feel like they are all a**holes.point 107 | From my parents (who said they thought I knew) to my siblings who all knew, I want no contact (at least for a while).point 201 |
”point 3 | 1
In an update, the man went on to provide more disturbing details saying his wife fell pregnant shortly after they began dating and just weeks after she ended things with his brother.
The post quickly went viral with the majority of readers siding with the man and slamming his wife and relatives for “betraying” his trust and making a fool out of him.
“WAIT A MINUTE, they had copious amounts of unprotected s*x weeks before y’all started dating, and she became pregnant very quickly once y’all started dating?! Are you sure your oldest is biologically yours?” one of the top comments read.
“Man I don’t even know what I would do if my partner slept with my sister and I get to know about it after 20 years…. I would feel embarrassed and betrayed,” another said.
A third suggested: “I’m not sure I could get by that either. I would never even consider dating someone my brother dated. And that is sick that everyone kept it a secret. And it didn’t happen over 20 years ago. It happened yesterday, because that is when you found out about it.”
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