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‘My Spongy Friend Is Fuming After I Refused To Lend Her Money For Gas – People Called Me MEAN For Standing My Ground’


A young woman sparked a debate and divided opinions as she revealed her friend has been fuming ever since she refused to lend her money for gas.

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The anonymous woman in question took to Mumsnet to explain how her friend messaged her only to request $20 for gas while promising to pay it back by the end of next week.

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Since this wasn’t the first time the “spongy” friend asked to borrow money, the woman said she didn’t think long before turning her down.

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She also said she didn’t want to worry about whether she would get the money back in time or encourage her friend to demand more loans in the future.

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“My friend has sent me a DM asking for $20 for petrol money and said she can pay it back next Sunday,” the poster wrote.

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“Am I being a cow for not wanting to? It’s just that she’s asked recently and I said no and I feel if I said yes it’d become a regular thing.

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“It may be only $20 this time but it could be $100 next time. And I don’t need the anxiety or the idea of it not being paid back for the next seven days.”

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After asking the forum if it was normal for people to borrow money from their friends, the woman received mixed responses from the readers.

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While some agreed with her approach and praised her for standing her ground, others suggested she wasn’t being a very good friend.

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