Jeff and Natasha have always been looking forward to raising a family of their own.
And when their baby girl was born, the newly-found parents were thrilled and overfilled with joy.
Only three weeks after their daughter’s birth, however, the baby unexpectedly passed away. While the parents couldn’t comprehend what had happened to their child, their grief soon turned into anger as the doctors informed them about the reason behind their daughter’s sudden death.
In order to help other parents prevent similar incidents, Jeff shared a touching Facebook post in which he wrote:
“I’ve been pretty silent since Mallory’s death. It’s taken me over a month now to write this, but if any good can come from her passing and prevent someone else from experiencing the heartache, then I would be remiss not to make an effort.
“If you have a new baby, or will be around a new baby, wash your hands. A lot. If anyone wants to hold your baby, make sure they wash their hands first. Then make them do it again…
“HSV-1, most commonly known as the virus behind cold sores, is a form of herpes (Herpes Simplex Virus-1).point 355 |
It is EXTREMELY common, and the World Health Organization estimates that 67% of all humans on Earth are infected.point 95 | To make things worse, many people who are infected will never show symptoms in their lifetime and probably don’t even know they have it.point 210 |
For newborns, it is more than likely fatal, as was the case for Mallory.point 59 | 1
“You might think it should have been easy to diagnose. Surely someone with an oozing cold sore kissed her on the mouth, right? Mallory was never in contact with a person who had an active cold sore. Never. Nobody ever kissed her on the mouth.
“In spite of that, she caught HSV-1 within her first week of life and we had to watch her die slowly for nearly 2 weeks.point 205 |
Mallory could not keep her hands out of her mouth and eyes and she was constantly sucking on her fingers, so it’s almost certain that the virus got onto her hands at some point.point 146 | It is possible to be contagious even without an active cold sore.point 200 | 1
“She had no symptoms beyond a high fever for most of the first week, and by the time blisters showed up it was probably too late for the antivirals to be effective. Considering that more than half the world has the cold sore virus, we don’t understand why so few infants die from the disease or why our beautiful daughter Mallory was the unlucky statistic, but that’s the way the world works I suppose.
“Please, if you’re reading this, be extra diligent about washing your hands around newborns. Statistically speaking, you’re probably infected with HSV-1 whether you know it or not.”
As Jeff pointed out, the HSV-1 infects the majority of the population and can be easily transferred to vulnerable subjects such as babies, for example. For that reason, keep in mind that you should always wash your hands thoroughly before touching or holding a baby.
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