Giving childbirth no doubt is a life-changing experience and an extraordinary moment for a mother.
On first hearing that little voice – as fine and friable, the waves on a mother’s soul is that of the highest magnitude of the earthquake, those that occur every hundred years, say, or every thousand. Everything changes, her life, her likes and dislike and her sleeping patterns too, because her brain actually changes. Yes! that’s right, Scientists have found that the amount of gray matter increases in a mom’s brain after 4 months of giving birth.
Raising a child is a full-time job and we all need a vacation from our jobs so why doesn’t a mother gets one? It sounds quite strange but it’s a bodily need of a mother to take a break from her beloved children.
As soon as a child comes to her life, she starts focusing on them more while neglecting her own fundamental needs such as sleep or even hunger. How could a mother carry on to her household activities and take care of her family when she herself is suffering from fatigue and stress issues? It is very essential for a mother to be in a fine fettle mind state in order to provide mindful parenting.
Undoubtedly, a mother’s love for her child is unconditional but going onto a vacation without her kids can help her recollect all her energies.
She would be able to recover her peaceful mind state and think of great parenting ideas which she could never do in hustle bustle of daily activates. All her “must do” will convert in to “want to.” She might be able to prepare her child’s next breakfast with more joy because while on a vacation she missed that.
Know that apart from being a mother she is a woman too and judging her upon leaving her children and going for some alone time with her own self is unjustifiable.
What are your thoughts on this matter? Do you think you should leave your children behind or take them along with you on a vacation?
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