A woman from Colorado is finally expecting a baby after waiting until she was 41 to lose her virginity.
Amanda McCracken did not avoid sex because of religious reasons nor because she didn’t have any opportunities.
As a matter of fact, she dated over 100 men and said she was even intimate with most of them but deep in her heart she wanted to do it only in ‘a mutually loving and committed relationship.’
But that didn’t happen until the summer of 2018 when Dave came into her life. They eventually got married and now they are expecting a baby!
In an interview with BBC Sounds, the expected mom said: “My first couple of boyfriends left me for other women, and so for a decade after that I was subconsciously dating in fear and thinking if I was going to be left again, at least I’d still have my virginity. It was a bit a matter of control because I was afraid of being left.
“I would never say it was something I was trying to get over with at all. I did feel like I started to wonder if my expectations for love and commitment were too high and if by not having sex I was keeping myself from the love and commitment that I wanted – and then I found that that was really not true.”
She added: “Everybody wants to know… you know, was it worth the wait? Yes it was, but not in the way most people would think. The sex was great, but this journey was never about the sex.
“I am now with a man named Dave and I’m in a loving committed relationship with him. This was about waiting to enter a relationship with someone who could offer love and for me to be able to receive that love.”
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