A woman’s blog is breaking the internet for all the right reasons.
The woman, Ndirah Angail, has beautifully penned down how a woman feels when she has no children, 5 children, or 1 child.
The blog was written, perhaps, to tell society how their comments affect the other person deeply. And the worst about this is that the society does not even realize it has said something triggering.
The first woman she writes about is a thirty-year-old one, without any children. She begins her blog post by a common question people ask the woman, still no kids?
The woman then replied with a fake smile that she does not. Now, a reminder shoots regarding her biological clock ticking, which causes the women to cry later when she is alone.
She cries because she has been pregnant multiple times but did not succeed because she desperately wants a baby but her medication does not allow her, or maybe because she does not enough money to try to in-vitro fertilization.
In the next excerpt, she explores the feeling of a woman who has five children. The society asks her to stop having children, and then laugh about it.
This woman cried because she loves having babies and wishes to have more, because she has to hide her pregnancy due to her fear of society’s judgment, or because she was the only child and felt immensely lonely.
Next, she explores the heart of a woman who is forty and has only one child. The society asks if she wants more children to which she calmly responses with a no.
But deep down she is breaking apart because she wants another child but cannot have due to medical reasons. Or how her career does not let her.
There are a plethora of emotions explored in the post. The above-mentioned is just to provide an idea. The blog ends with a sentence that their wombs are only their own followed by a request to respect that.
This clearly translates that a woman should not be asked about her children because she may already be heartbroken because of that.
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